20 June 2007

What I think...

Beautitful isn't it that I can sit here in my home and write exactly what's on my mind without feeling the need to hide or control my mouth? Ok, so here's what I think on random subjects......

Quality of life....Medications to sustain a stupor is not quality of life. Keeping someone so drugged up that they don't know their pathetic mind hurts and everyone that's involved. Sad but true. Quality of life does not mean that you should be in pain or that you should not understand. Quality is what you want for your life not what others decide.

Sexuality....As a woman, I own my sexuality. I will not be silenced about what I want or need from an intimate relationship. I as a woman have the right to choose who invades my body (that sounds bad) and to ensure that all areas of myself are fulfilled. I am a woman with feelings, needs and emotions. I am not afraid to talk openly about sex with my partner, I should not feel ashamed of aiding in others personal growth toward a healthy sex life (even if it means I talk to men about it).

Love.....It is an emotion, a feeling, a connection. It takes two people involved to maintain those feelings. Beyond all that, it is a choice, it is a choice to give to it even when you don't feel it, to hold on to it through the rough spots and choose to accept it when it is given back. Feeling in love is fleeting, its what you make of it when its not there that matters the most.

Relationships....Commuication is key. I have learned through my work that it is so important to not sweat the little things. I have been myself many times that learning to take things as they come, to be responsible for yourself, choosing your battles, having a sense of humor, and forgiveness are all components to maintaining a relationship. Furthermore, it is a choice to remain in them everyday. Somedays its harder then others, but in the end the choice to stay is always yours. 

Knowledge....is what you take from it. I prefer to continuously learn. I want to know, learn and live my life to the best it can be. Without knowledge, I would be little more than a primate.

So there you go, just a short list of my opinions for the night.

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